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Saturday, September 03, 2005

put your head back in the clouds and shut your mouth

I know I shouldn't let this kind of thing annoy me.

I found this comment posted over on Ka's blog this evening:

"Are you for real? Do you live in a cave? How could any human being with an ounce of awareness (other than self-awareness, which you seem to posess in spades) post such a self-serving, egocentric, woe-is-me blog entry at this particular moment in history? This is a personal blog, not one devoted to world events, fine. You don't need to talk about Katrina, but can you not have the decency to stop obsessing about yourself for even a moment? Many individuals and groups have chosen to observe moments of silence as the situation unfolds. If you believe your to be the only suffering in the world that's fine, but can you not at least have the decency to remain silent about it for even a moment? You seem to consider yourself a well-educated urban sophisticate poised to inherit the earth (once the big bad world stops being so mean to you). It sickening to consider the possibility that you may be right.

That makes me so angry. Do this person have no sense of the irony in what they're saying? It's as if Americans are totally unaware that bad shit has been happening in the rest of the world since the dawn of time. Until it happens to the USA, it may as well not have happened at all. It's like there was no World War I until the Lusitania got torpedoed, and no World War II until Pearl Harbour was bombed. No tragedy until it affects Americans.

It's the sheer brass neck and pig-headed ignorance in daring to use words like "self-serving" and "egocentric", and of accusing somebody of believing "yours to be the only suffering in the world". How could those words not be applied many hundreds of times over to the USA? It's as if nothing else bad has happened anywhere else in the world this week. Maybe I dreamed that stampede in Iraq on Wednesday that saw 960 people dead. Perhaps I didn't see that chilling message from beyond the grave from one of the London suicide bombers. Maybe thousands of Africans didn't die of starvation or from easily treatable diseases..... I could go on and on. Nobody gives a shit about that though, right? That happened somewhere else. This has happened to US, and how DARE the rest of the world not stop what it's doing and help us.

I'm not a believer in karma, and I have no wish to make light of the human tragedy that is unfolding in the wake of Katrina. It's been like watching something from 'The Lord of the Flies', and nobody in the modern world should have to deal with this kind of tragedy. But that's just it isn't it: NOBODY should have to deal with it. That means Americans, of course it does, but is also means Iraqis, Palestinians, Africans, Israelis, Muslims, Christians, Sikhs, Atheists, white people, black people, brown people, yellow people.... blue people. Whoever. Why be selective in our grief, outrage and with our help?

Needless to say, our commentator is anonymous. No doubt they've been pasting that remark on every blog they have come across this evening. It's probably their idea of a contribution. I probably shouldn't let it annoy me, after all, the comment wasn't even left here, and I know it's probably just the ignorant rantings of an isolated idiot, and not representative of what most sensible Americans think.

But dammit....it does.

14 Comments:

  • At 3:10 am, Blogger Erika said…

    You are brilliant. One pint on me for sticking up for me on my blog, and another for carrying it through to yours. I'll give Lord B money on the way home in case it takes me a while to get to your island again.

    I was on the edge of giving up the Grey City tonight. You and Lord B are just brilliant brilliant lads. Thank you so much.

     
  • At 7:08 am, Blogger Aravis said…

    First of all, let me say that I agree whole-heartedly that this behavior was disgusting and inexcusable. In no way did Ka deserve that!

    BUT

    While they may well be American, nowhere in their message does it say so. It seems you are making an assumption. And if they are American, they are not speaking for the rest of the country.

    I've written and rewritten this post ST. I was angry with you at first, and I think I'm still a little annoyed, though not so much with you as with people abroad who constantly accuse my country of not caring about the rest of the world while simultaneously telling us to stop meddling in it. As an American I'm tired of being lambasted every time some idiot shoots his mouth off because of course all Americans are that way. Supposedly we're all ignorant, uncaring, arrogant bastards. We can't help it; it's our attitude as a nation.

    It's easy to contemptuously dismiss people who behave that way as American, but I have to tell you that I've seen plenty of that behavior from people all over the world. Nor is the US the only greedy, self-serving country.

    I don't think anger or blame is the best way to handle any of the crises mentioned, or any of the countless others.

     
  • At 10:45 am, Blogger swisslet said…

    it's a fair point well made Aravis, but in my defence, I did acknowledge as much in my post when I said that it was probably an isolated idiot and not representative of sensible Americans (albeit having made the assumption that it was written by an American, which was wrong of me).

    Sorry if I annoyed you though.

    ST

     
  • At 3:18 pm, Blogger Erika said…

    I hope I'm not going to offend anyone here, as I'm so grateful for all your support.

    I'm with you, Aravis, in so much as I didn't get that this prick was condemning me for not caring about the hurricane victims but it was okay I wasn't caring about anything else.

    But, in the same breath, I am struck by how there is expectation of grief for this one event when very little else in the world (the Russian school hostage-taking, perhaps, is the exception) is mandatory. I find it very similar to the atmosphere in New York after September 11th, where the performance of grief almost became more important than the grief itself. I remember kneeling beside the church that was being used as a safehouse for the rescue workers, writing on a banner left for just such a purpose, a few months after the fact. As they continued to pull victims from the rubble a block away, I started to write something along the lines of, "In this time of immeasurable sorrow, may we find the strength to open our hearts and our eyes," but I stopped at "hearts." I wanted to say this - to ask the world "why?" and not just "how could they?" - but I was suddenly fearful of what the wailing crowds would do if I was anything less than 100% angry and sorrowful. I did finish my little quote but I did it after a quick glance around to make sure no one was watching and then I bolted.

    What's going on in the south is an immeasurable human tragedy. In the very worst possible way, we are witnessing the breakdown of society, the failure of the government to protect its people, the truth behind socioeconomic and ethnicity, and the loss of a very VERY great city.

    I am mourning, deeply, because it's impossible not to, but I do resent being made to feel as if I HAVE to.

    This isn't, I don't think, an American quirk, but rather it has much more to do with the human tendency to prioritize and impose value on events. It only goes to reason that something that happens in your own backyard is more deeply felt than something down the block. I learned this first-hand two years ago when two 10 year old girls were abducted and murdered (separately) in Toronto: one a block away from my house, and one on the other side of the city. I ached for Holly Jones because my neighbourhood was aching for Holly Jones; poor little Cecilia Jhang was another tragic statistic.

    That it is so often laid at American feet is perhaps the result of the ubiquity of your worldview. You are the most powerful and most vocal nation in the world, and therefore we always know what you (or at least the people doing the talking) are thinking. And, unfortunately, it's usually those assholes who talk about ragheads and Cindy Al-Sheehani that talk the loudest. It's not right to pass generalizations on Americans, but it's easy when the educated, moderate voices (I think the far left are as dangerous as the far right), and those of much of the rest of the world, are relegated to blogging.

    I'm really rambling, sorry ST. I'm not even sure I know what I'm trying to say anymore, so I'm going to stop here.

     
  • At 3:35 pm, Blogger LB said…

    I would refer to my comment left over at Ka's earlier.

    Un-be-lie-vable.

    Swiss, if I haven't said it before, if I ever had to fight a war of words, you would be my first in command....

     
  • At 3:48 pm, Blogger swisslet said…

    it's a slight change in direction, but the performance of grief being more important than the actual grief itself is what we saw in the UK for that amazing couple of weeks after Princess Diana died - more or less exactly 8 years ago, as it happens.

    After the initial shock, it became all about people coming to gawk at the other people gawking.

    I'm not comparing this with what we're seeing in the USA at the moment, I'm just saying.

    Ka - you are always welcome to ramble whatever you want here on whatever topic. I like hearing what you have to say on stuff. Same goes for you Aravis.... I like the fact that you can come over here and pick me up on my generalisations. Long may it continue.

    ST

    ST

     
  • At 7:48 pm, Blogger The Num Num said…

    Looks like the chap who posted that is hurting deep inside, and is looking for other people to share his hurt. When Ka shared Ka's hurt, and not Worldwide's hurt, Worldwide was devestated - twice over.

    So hence his post chastising Ka for concentrating on Ka.

    Psychologically, Worldwide is shattered. What's happened in N.O. is pretty darned bad, but it happened via nature, and as such, nobody really is to blame (you can't put in flood barriers to stop that sort of thing tbh) The reaction from his own country has been less than exemplary - the worlds greatest superpower not really sorting out the welfare of its people within a day or so is a hard thing to cope with.

    However, there again, I'm pretty sure the people who were tasked with having to sort it out, were genuinely trying to you know, sort it out. Maybe there's too much red tape, maybe not enough money, maybe it just didn't work as well as it should have.

    The problem here is, that this worldwide chap has decided to attack someone because they shared a different view of the events to his. His world is devestated, his home, living, possibly friends, gone. So in that aspect, I can only but feel sorry for him.

    But to attack another for your own grief, well thats not cricket. We all have personal grief, its personal.

     
  • At 7:50 pm, Blogger red one said…

    Swiss - I've caught up late with events over at Ka's. Cor blimey.

    I think you and Aravis are both right.

    There, that's even handed of me, isn't it? Actually both your and Aravis's points are important and I think I am going to ramble on about it on my blog shortly because otherwise you will have a long RedOne rant on your comments.

    red

     
  • At 8:16 pm, Blogger swisslet said…

    well, worldwide has won, and Ka has decided to take a blog hiatus in the face of the attack.

    I'm sad about that.

    It turns out that worldwide is an actor/tour guide who runs a ghost tour in New Orleans. I think it's fair to say that he's probably not in the best place right now. I don't think there's any excuse for lashing out at Ka like that, but..... well..... It must be quite hard to think clearly when you are in the middle of the maelstrom.

    I'm not angry about this any more. Well maybe I am a bit. Mostly I'm sad.

    ST

     
  • At 8:35 pm, Blogger red one said…

    I've just seen the same thing. Bloody hell. Yes, I can also see that Worldwide has plenty of good reasons for not being at his best at the moment.

    I really don't think his circumstances are the fault of a blogger in Canada though. And perhaps he doesn't realise - or circumstances have made him forget - that people don't blog the sum total of their feelings about everything, all the time. The blog is not necessarily representative of the person.

    Many of the Things I Haven't Blogged About are really important. Not having blogged about New Orleans (yet) certainly doesn't mean I haven't been thinking about it - rather the opposite.

    I wonder why he chose to post effectively anonymously and not mention who he was or where he was from, though. I'd have had more sympathy for him if he had.

    red

     
  • At 1:00 am, Blogger Aravis said…

    Yes to all of you. :0)

    ST- Sorry, I didn't mean you specifically on the American rant. I was railing against the "Americans Suck" attitude in general, which of course is easy to come across on the internet. I apologise for not being more clear about who I was feeling angry with. Most of the time this sort of thing doesn't really bother me, but once in a while it does. I'm afraid I was in the wrong frame of mind when I read your post last night. I appreciate your understanding.

    Ka, I agree with all that you said. I resent people dictating to me how I should feel over anything, so I get what you're saying. I hope when things settle down that you'll blog again. In the meantime, I'll enjoy reading what you have to share when you comment.

    As for Chas/Worldwide, being in the middle of that hell and having lost everything, and possibly loved ones, would explain his attack on Ka, even if it didn't excuse it.

     
  • At 11:12 am, Blogger Mark said…

    where did all your sidebar links go?

     
  • At 1:56 pm, Blogger swisslet said…

    mark - no idea mate! I use bloglines mostly now anyway, so perhaps I should just put a link up to my feeds there?

    ST

     
  • At 3:56 pm, Blogger Ali said…

    Ka - I only know you through Swisstoni's blog.

    I have only just read the episode in question, and I wanted to say I'm sorry you had to go through that, you did not deserve this bilious vitriolic attack.

    I hope you don't feel discouraged and in time feel able to return to your writing.

     

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